Thongsurfer
New England thong wearers group
- Location
- Clinton, Massachusetts,United States
I went to the beach yesterday and it was deserted. 70 degrees and windy was enough to scare away most sun worshippers. This beach is known for being primarily an adult beach with a small proportion who wear Speedo style suits. My normal beachwear is a narrow side bikini with the back positioned so that most of my ass is exposed (see attached). Yesterday I wore a g-string style TM and a 1” side Beachndance thong.
For all practical purposes there is no difference, but I was nervous and felt quite different without that minuscule flap of material in the back.
I believe that others may draw a distinction between the 2 styles and cause them to bother me if I wear the thong vs. the bikini. Reasonable people would see that the difference is slight and both exist along a continuum. There is the option of pulling the bikini out from between your cheeks if you wanted to be slightly more modest. Which I have done if there are kids or police
In the end no one seemed to notice and my overall impression that no one notices or cares was confirmed. My history has been a linear one from board shorts to thongs. Perhaps it is age and a lack of self conscious anxiety, but I care less what others may think about me. Yet it’s not as though I don’t care at all, since I get nervous in a thong on a public beach. I usually choose to push the boundaries of acceptable swimwear but I try to avoid crossing a line which will get me in trouble.
For all practical purposes there is no difference, but I was nervous and felt quite different without that minuscule flap of material in the back.
I believe that others may draw a distinction between the 2 styles and cause them to bother me if I wear the thong vs. the bikini. Reasonable people would see that the difference is slight and both exist along a continuum. There is the option of pulling the bikini out from between your cheeks if you wanted to be slightly more modest. Which I have done if there are kids or police
In the end no one seemed to notice and my overall impression that no one notices or cares was confirmed. My history has been a linear one from board shorts to thongs. Perhaps it is age and a lack of self conscious anxiety, but I care less what others may think about me. Yet it’s not as though I don’t care at all, since I get nervous in a thong on a public beach. I usually choose to push the boundaries of acceptable swimwear but I try to avoid crossing a line which will get me in trouble.